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Smallness of Scale


My friend LL Barkat, over at Seedlings in Stone, recently began a series of posts on an agricultural book that she is reading. As usual, LL does a great job of applying seemingly unrelated topics (like farming techniques) to our every day life. Since I’m behind in commenting on her blog – and since I realize I have more to say about her topics than is probably appropriate for a comment – I’ve decided to blog on the topics here.

Her second blog explained a concept called “Smallness of Scale”. Basically, the technique of using smaller farms permitted attention to be acutely focused, with the proper attention paid to the details. LL offers some great thoughts and practical ideas for implementing “smallness of scale”, as do her readers. Overall, the idea that “less is more” is promoted.

I loved that thought and the ideas that accompanied it, and am still pondering the idea about really focusing on a smaller number of relationships, rather than many. However, one reader’s comment really struck me: Marcia said, “Tiny moments or gestures of love make me happy, small steps are big steps in my eyes, I love ‘stolen moments’.” I loved that interpretation. I immediately remembered something Beth Moore said in a conference I attended yesterday (more specifically on the conference in a forthcoming post) – “God doesn’t just have the power to change our lives, He has the power to change our day.” We keep looking for God do something way out in our lives (think big), and we miss the ways and the opportunities that God wants to do something in our today (think smallness of scale). Small things happen every day that are blessings or encouragement or learnings, and if we’re always looking for that big thing – we’ll miss out on so much. Likewise, performing those small deeds of kindness and love are just as important and just as powerful (if not, sometimes, more) as those huge, outrageous acts of love. It’s amazing the response I receive every time I drop a friend a little note of encouragement in the mail, or send her my prayer for the day for her in an email or call her up just to say that I’m glad she’s my friend. When I pay attention to little things that make my husband’s day easier and that encourage him and that communicate that I love him – just little things – they touch his heart deeply and motivate him.

When I think of smallness of scale in this way (in addition to the less is more perspective), I realize it is so easy to implement. Small things seem manageable, easier to fit into my every days.

For more on Smallness of Scale, check out LL’s blog here .

Photo: Crossvine in Sue’s backyard, 2005

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3 comments

  1. Marcia

    We all want to make a difference in someone’s lives. Thank you for including my words with LL Barkat’s, Beth Moore’s, and yours.

  2. L.L. Barkat

    oh, sorry… I saw this post the other day and must have gotten distracted… I forgot to link to you! Forgive me, do.

    The small acts of love are more likely to happen, I think, if we aren’t scattered superficially across too many relationships.

    Hey, I see you are reading Kay Strom. She’s a wonderful friend of mine, and I loved her Daughters of Hope book!

  3. spaghettipie

    Marcia – of course! Thanks for stopping by.

    LL – Don’t worry. I only posted it that morning, so I don’t think you missed it.

    Yes, I can see how it is easier to be more focused on those small things when you have fewer people to concentrate on.

    I met Kay (and her husband) at MH two years ago and loved her. The book is great – but has not been one I can read in one fell swoop. I’m having to take my time and treat it more like a weekly devotional.

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